Monday, September 11, 2023

Is Physical Intimacy a base for stronger Relationship?

 Hello readers .. hope all of you are doing great. Few days back I was watching a series, where the girl's grand mom suggests her to get intimate with her would be hubby to find out how compatible they are in bed? According to her, if they are great in bed, that will develop a stronger bond between them.. and they will go a long way.. I have heard this philosophy from my partner as well in earlier days of marriage that physical intimacy leads to more emotional security and attachment (though I thought it was other way round)...Coz for me first one needs to be more understanding and caring in a relationship then only a girl or a lady feels comfortable being physically intimate with her partner.. 

Coz my experience in life is like that ... I have earned few best friends ,.. whom i can call anytime and they are there without being physical with them... the emotional bond is sooo strong that physical thing seems so irrelevant in front of that... they understand me well and remember small details about me and their love or care is so evident ..

So, I was wondering ,, whats more important in a relationship ? share your views on this... 



Wednesday, September 6, 2023

Lesson learnt Hard Way..

 I think communication skills must be the mandatory part of any curriculum.. sometimes we need to reveal or stop when a conversation goes out of bounds nd thats very important for every person to know otherwise it can change your future forever.. 

I have learnt it hard way by revealing it to an unknown stranger whom I considered my friend for sometime..When I was alone and was going thru a bad phase.. I revealed it to this person.. and life changed completely after that (The biggest and stupid mistake of my life ).. 

Anyways, .. Lost my dear person after that but a very important lesson learnt for life.. Sometimes, I feel it actually happened for good that if it gave that person happiness then at least my stupidity actually helped someone get some happiness in their life .. So, in  a way It is good also ...


One of my favs lines: Muskuraao kyunki tumhe zarurat hai... Kuch kho gaya to b khush raho shayad kisi aur ko uski tum se zaada zarurat thi... Muskuraao kyunki zindagi Khoobsuurat hai...