Learn Some Manners... For God's Sake

It feels quite disturbing when people forget basic manners or Chivalry (most appropriate word) to treat ladies. Other day one of my very good friends was telling this incidence, people looking forward to get their son married keep infeasible expectations. They ask weird kind of questions like what is your height? (Thank God, they don't ask What's your Vital stats?), how much you earn? (Does your son wants to be dependent on his wife's salary?). Such things really suck. I know, in arranged marriages, people prefer to be a bit cautious, after all you don't know the other person, and for marriage it's required to get all the details. But man, is it ok to insult the poor girl who is sitting there in front of you and not saying anything just for the sake of her parents. Can't you ask such questions in more respectful manner? Get a life man! Females these days are not dumb mules. They are well educated and self dependent. So, why do they have to tolerate such kind of behaviors from people. Can't you guys respect females ????