Friday, June 19, 2020

Isn't it Right to stand for yourself?

In modern times when we have grown u reading stories of many Bravehearts like Rani Jhansi, Rani Padmavati, Draupadi, and many females or male characters who inspired us by their decision making and made a mark in the history. A question always arises that why still females or anyone who is a soft-hearted person is considered weaker 

In our society, on one hand, we worship them in form of Durga, Laxmi but on the other hand, in our daily lives, we hear many disturbing stories of domestic abuse, rapes, or sometimes more dangerous of them all that is Mental abuse. People have always tried to hide such stories or chose to keep mum either for the sake of fake society's reputation or their own personal weaknesses. 

We can't blame any particular caste, creed or sex for such things, I feel we females are somewhere responsible for this condition of womanhood. For instance, Why we teach our girls always to be patient even if something wrong happens, Why don't we teach them to differentiate between what's wrong and what's right for them. If we are against a thing, why don't we have the courage to speak for ourselves at the very moment when something wrong happens, why do we wait for years to speak or wait for a big campaign like "Me Too"  

As a woman, I feel it's our responsibility to teach our next generation to stand for themselves, be it a boy or a girl, and support other humans around us who are dealing with something tough in their life. 

A lot that has happened in past few years around me (not exactly in my life), has pushed me to ask this question that is it wrong to speak your mind or stand for yourself?

P.S.  #Sushant Singh Rajput's demise has affected me a lot as he was the first and last actor, I have loved. He was a good human as per the sources and am still not able to accept that he is gone. 

Please help people around you guys and be kind to yourself and the others.