Tuesday, December 21, 2021

Count Your Blessings..

Well, last few days have been busy for me .. my hubbys mausi is suffering from cancer and we are hereto help her to deal with her illness.. She is a strong lady and is facing every situation with a positive frame of mind.. in last few month, i found another mother in her .. she is a good soul and listens to me and shares good thought with me.. Hope she recovers well.. today am here to thank god and each and every person in my life who added good and some bitter exp. to it.. Without such learning I have not been so mentally strong ..Last month have been a roller coaster though.. I found out some ugly truths but I enjoyed some great moments too.. Well I count my blessings now... So here is a list ..

 1. I enjoyed cleaning the house for mausi ji.. It needed a deep cleaning.. (We did it with the help of Urban Clap)... Technology is a boon in itself... 

 2. Met my friend in the society and enjoyed with her .. 

 3. Met My cousin Bhabhi and we enjoyed going to Golf course and lunch and dinners with her and my husbands family...they are fun..

 4. Went to Jagat Farm Market and enjoyed shopping with my lovely cutie pie daughter.... 

 5. Watched "Spider Man" movie with my Hubby and daughter.. These are a few.. 

Thank you god for surrounding me with such wonderful people ...

Friday, July 2, 2021

Life Mein Twist :)

Life is so uncertain, and this I have learnt in past 2-3 years. One moment you think this world is full of happiness, full of love, full of laughter, but the next moment it just vanishes in a second. After completing my post grad, I got the job, I got money, but the real me lost somewhere in the race of meeting targets, sticking on to people who never beloged to me, and and then moving on with a hard hearted, more confident, always smiling, no tension carrying Ann. The real Ann lost somewhere. The innocent Ann died inside. Life is not that bad yet, but it's not that good too. Stress has increased. Stress to search better job, stress to survive with responsibilities and stress to make everyone happy while I myself is not happy.

Sometimes I think, Human nature is complex. We don't get satisfied by anything. When we were in college, we were desparate to get a job, to get married to have fun. But, now when we have the job, the money, I don't have any expectations, any enthusiasm left.

Survival Guide for Youngsters

 There comes a point in almost everyone's life when we lose hope from every direction of our life. Some of us get so disturbed by certain life events and go into a depression state as we don't have many people around us with whom we can share our pain, few of us even start thinking about ending our life. 

Now, the question arises, in such testing times, how we can keep ourselves positive or think in the right direction so that we don't end up feeling lonely, depressed, or fall into the trap of bad habits. 

1. Count on your saviors: For me, my saviors are my friends or my sister. There have been times when I felt so low that life seemed meaningless to me. In such tough times, my sister and a few close friends helped me come out of it.

But, friends be aware also, sometimes we make unknown online friends whom we think are the safest person to share our thoughts with but sometimes when you don't know who is the real person on the other side, he or she might spoil ur things (happened with me). 

So, be careful, always be cautious with whom you are sharing your problems. 

So, just look around and think of 5 most important and close people in the real-world (not in the virtual world) with whom you can share your pain. In fact, even if there is a single person who is ready to listen to you, life is worth living.

2. Keep your Mind Engaged: 



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